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Post by BlackKnight on Oct 13, 2004 19:04:21 GMT -5
this girl and i have been friends for quite awhile... but that really isnt the point. she and some guy are going out and he dont treat her with much respect... he is always checking out other girls when they are together, he gets mad at her if she does something small wrong, and they have been in a few fights just words no physical contact.... i am scarred to talk to her i dont know what to say to comfort her and i dont wanna say something stupid to make her mad at me .... what should i do
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Post by cyn on Oct 14, 2004 0:13:03 GMT -5
Ahh yes those infamous assholes: [glow=red,2,300]men[/glow] let's start out with the basics...women crave affection and attention and a woman will do crazy things to get it, including staying in bad relationships with assholes. women also have this funny idea that if they try hard enough they can get a man to change his ways. completely untrue. my advice to you is help her to realize she doesn't have to put up with his abuse and stupidity. ask her what she wants in an ideal relationship and if she thinks that it will ever occur with her current man. a word of caution: be careful how you word it or she'll think you're criticizing her and get defensive. let her know that you are always there to listen and that she deserves to be with somebody that respects her fully; mind, body, and soul. Unless of course he's just a big hunk and she's using him for sex (the little minx). then you buy her a rabbit dildo and lure her away
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Post by BlackKnight on Oct 16, 2004 14:03:01 GMT -5
well i think HE is using her for sex
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